What's Really Important Here?

How can you tell what's important and what is not?  
All day and night there are signals coming in to demand attention, things to notice, and decide what action is needed. 
 It could be a family situation, something at work that needs to be handled, or your own feelings and thoughts ...or all of the above, at once.  Want to talk about it?

Meet me at  
 Act III: Charting Your Life Purpose
for a free strategy session.  I'll share resources to help you get int touch with your direction in new ways.

Ask yourself what purpose is being served by each of the signals, and they will become easier to decipher and prioritize.  Are you being asked to be in a role that is out of touch with your values, in order to make things work for someone else?  How much value does that add to your life and that of those you care about?

You are the one who will make the priorities that shape your life and relationships.  When you are clear within yourself about your values, you can see that the urgency that is often projected about small things is an energy drain. It keeps real solutions from being generated and obscures the light of inspiration from reaching you.  Life does contain truly urgent situations, but they are relatively few.  You, and those around you, will be better served by taking the larger view of matters, not letting yourself be distracted by things that don't contribute energy.  How important will the situation you see today be in five years?

What is your purpose in doing what you are doing today?  Is there one thing you can change about your situation, even in a small way, that will make more room for the things you really care about?  Make that little change, and see what opens up for you. 
Make room for yourself...

Talk it over!

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info@bettyofbigsur.com.  Take the time for a free consultation to find resources to support your growth and discover a deeper vision for your life.

Or call me at (831) 667-2314.  I’d love to support your growth.  Have a great day!

Best regards,

Betty